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This is a chance to tell your story, as it happened, or as it is happening. You can also read what’s going on with other girlfriends who might be experiencing the same situations. We want to hear your experience and advice. Your story might save a young person’s life or help them to leave an abusive relationship.

We will publish stories that contain advice to others on this site. Sharing your experience can help you understand and recover from what you have gone through and assist you in moving on with your life. Sharing your experience also helps others who are being abused. They can feel encouraged and supported when they read your advice and see how you were able to cope with the abuse.

Any information you send to us will be kept confidential. We will not identify who you are. Please read the following conditions before you submit your story. These conditions are set up to protect your safety. When you submit your story you are agreeing to the conditions we have set in place
 
Please read the conditions listed to the right, then fill out the information below.
 
I have read the conditions and agree to them:  Conditions:
 
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A made up first name you'd like to call yourself:
 
Your emal address:
 
Your real name:
 
Your age:   Gender:
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The state where you live:
 
 
 
Your story:
 
Tell us what happened to you. Please keep it fairly brief as we can't publish long stories (20 lines only):
• Do not use any names~ don’t use your real name, your boyfriend or girlfriend’s name, or anyone else’s name.
• If we think anything you submit to us may identify who you are, we will alter it to protect you.
• We reserve the right not to publish a story, to publish only part of it, to edit a story and to remove stories at our discretion.
• We will only publish stories about personal experiences of abuse by boyfriends or girlfriends or ex-partners. Unfortunately we can’t publish stories about abuse by family members because this is not the focus of this site. If you are being abused by a family member please call the 24-hour hotline and speak with a counselor, we want you to get help. Family members do not have the right to abuse you.
• The purpose of this site is to tell your story and to assist others who are being abused. If you are currently being abused, we hope the information you read on the site gives you the courage to talk to someone you trust about your relationship or to call the hotline if you want advice.
• The purpose of this site is to educate people about teen dating violence and to assist and support those who have been or who are abused. Anything that is submitted that is not appropriate will not be published.
• We will not publish your real name or your email address. (We ask the information for our purpose’s only)
 
How did you cope with it? (8 lines maximum):
 
How did the situation change? (8 lines maximum):
 
What and who helped you to get stronger? (8 lines maximum):
 
What would you say to anyone else who is being abused? (8 lines maximum):
 
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